Le Hui's

- Wanna watch Vampire suck but the review said it kind of sucks too
- Busy 'working' these few days for the sake of my desires ;)

Flora printed cushion covers

Fetish for flora prints never die
They even have blankets, tissue box cover, floor mats etc...
I wish I could buy them all and decorate my room

Played with baby Kaien for alittle while after marketing

Just had her breakfast and her lips looks oily

Mommy trying to make her smile

Engrossed in her Doremon

Currently at 16 months old and her little sibling will be out this Nov!
Hope he/she will be born on my birthday *Cross finger*

Stayed home day and re-watched Autumn's concerto again with Melvin

Tabao Mcnuggets meal to nom on

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Watched this video on Peipei's blog
I think the message they deliver is not only about Alzheimer's disease but also
how the young generation should appreciate and respect their elders!

HI!

Had a belated birthday celebration for Jane
Went over to Bugis for steamboat followed by Clarke Quay's Tcc to chill

The last time I came here was last Dec with the same company =)

The appetizer which is irresistible although it's spicy

Makan time! @12AM

Our drinks @Tcc

It was only when I reached home then I realized we didn't take a group photo =(

With the birthday girl

Jane, Tyr & me
Took this while Angie & Michelle went to order the cake

The cake along with Ben&Jerry Ice cream which we bought at Bugis's 7-11
As we intended to go to Top 1 initially

Gift from Angie which she bought from HongKong

Made a trip to Mary's corner to change a new hairstyle
Love the head and shoulder massage as usual!
Snip off about 4-5 inch of my hair and
changed another style for my fringe

Read this on FB and would like to share it here

MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A LIFETIME.

So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. Matthew 19:6.

By Stephanie Halmilton

Accompanied Melvin the whole day and watched YOG matches and
Let's go Dream Team on KBS channel
It's damn nice and hope I can watch it on Youtube
Met Sinni and collected the Kose products she helped me bought
And she then acc me to collect my dress from a buyer and acc me home
while walking feifei =)

BKK Day 3!

Rise and shine on a sunny island with the sun shining on us!
Ahem, that's how beds should look like right?

Prepared and camwhore alittle with sis while waiting for the *elders* to be done
hehehe

So it's gonna be a threesome day where the ladies
(which means the 3of us) would be going on a shopping spree!!!!!
Andrew would be going temple visiting with the cab driver

First destination is Siam paragon, Central World etc
(basically the whole stretch of malls)
But the riot worsen that day and all the malls there were ordered to close
As you can see, they blocked the entire road, refusing entry to anyone
We had no choice but to go to MBK which is the only mall at the vicinity
that is open for business

We settle down at Starbucks first before a round of shopping!

With Jolene

With Sis

Doing something using the status of tourist!
We set self timer and took several shots and halfway through,
The Caucasian sitting next to us even offered to take a shot for us!

Erm, guess this needs no elaboration.

Waited for the shops to open and we did our gel nails!
Spent a total of 3-4 hours?
Coulnd't make up my mind and eventually did the same as Jo's
While sis did another design

Jo and mine

Sis's

Mine and sis's pedicure

Stomach started to growl after doing our Mani and Pedicure,
Thus we settled our lunch @Pizza Hut!

Specially took this for you guys to see
Can imagine how cheap the pizza hut there is compared to Sin's

Pasta is about Sgd$4-5 only!!!

Baked Rice even cheaper: Sgd$3-4!!!

It's definitely a steal and silly not to eat right?!?

Another thing about Bkk is that there are lots of Donut outlet around
It's pratically like everywhere you go you will see at least 1 shop
So here is Mister Donut and they have lots of variety
(From mini to normal, cute to colorful)
It's really different from what we see in Singapore
The most important thing is they are so much nicer than Sin's donut!!!
*Oh ya, and they are so cheappppppp*

Bought a box of donuts to munch on at night in the Hotel

Shopped ard and mall-hopped to several malls including Platinum again ;)
Went back to the hotel to place our loots and rest our tired feets

Another few shots before we left for out dinner

Last station for the night: Suan Lum Night Bazaar
Lots of imitation stuffs there but there were also quite a few stalls selling quality and nice stuffs which we can't find elsewhere
However their pricetag are also relatively ex as well =((
Only manage to get a few pairs of vintage earrings and souvenirs

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